Hey um I’m in a LDR relationship we’ve been together for like 4 months now and well we’ve talking about finally meetings (I live in WA and he lives CA) once I graduate from high school. But since everything is coming from my pocket and the flight to were he lives is expensive and I have to stay in an hotel… All these costs are worrying me so much. I think it barely hit me how hard this is going to be and it seems like there are this signs pointing out that its not going to work. Since he got accepted to the same university as me but wont attend because it doesnt have nursing… /:
I just need to know that LDR are successful and worth it? Because I dont know anymore but I dont want to tell him how I feel because it’ll just wont go well /.\ Sorry just needed to let it all out and you’re in a LDR so that is why. Any advice? Because I really do care about him and I want to see how far we will go and I know he cares about me…
I know I’ve been losing time for you. But I promise to make up for it. Remember that I love you, no matter how far apart we are. We will stand strong through this distance between us.
Ouch. Your girlfriend sounds a lot like me sometimes. Hehe.
There are moments that I too doubt my own ldr. But then I think of losing my boyfriend and lose all the chance of being with him and that scares more than anything.
So when I have doubts, it’s either I turn to my bf for strength or find it within me.
Besides, LDR will only work if both of you are on the same boat. If the other one is on the edge, it’ll surely tip over.
Instead of arguing with her, show her your sincerity and compassion.
That’s what my boyfriend does. :)
First of, I don’t see how an ldr should be kept.
I don’t really get it because I know a lot of ldr couples who have told their parents about their significant other.
But if it is a very sensitive matter, I think you should gradually let them know about him. Start by saying you’ve met a nice friend online and how you feel comfortable with him.
I know some parents would really be so over protective especially now that a lot of evil schemes flow through the internet.
But let them know how sincere this person is.
Let them talk to him, get to know him.
Don’t hide him in the shadows.
I hope you find a way to resolve this and still be together.
Wishing you both the best of luck.
Hi. I know this response is a tad bit late.
So have you moved yet? How was it?
I hope it’s everything you imagined it would be and so much greater.
Wishing you happiness and more power to your love. :)
So are you still here in the Philippines?
I hope you two find a way to close the distance soon. :)
Stay happy sis. Stay in love.
Your story is truly inspiring. :)
No matter what, distance is only a number.
It’s love that will always bring you closer together. :)
Uhm-duh! Who cares what he thinks?
You and him are no longer together right? He’s the one who lied in the first place.
At least you got the guts to go and tell him straight forward that you already have a boyfriend and not go talk to him and give him false hopes.
Tell him to get over himself!
You did the right thing so don’t worry about him. Focus on your guy.
Be happy. You sure deserve it. :)