You can’t really put aside doubt especially when you’re in a LDR. It will always be there somehow. It’s just a matter of how you will handle it and how you will let it affect your relationship.
I will admit that me and my ldr-bf aren’t having a perfect relationship. We do argue sometimes because I tend to doubt him. But what he does to keep that doubt at bay is prove how there’s nothing for me to worry about or fear about.
So don’t feel bad about doubting your significant other. It just makes your love for him even more true. Besides, we don’t live in a fairy-tale perfect world right?
Hmmm. Kind of a tough call right?
I think you can call it “official” if you both talk about it. There’s really not much you can do rather than ask right? Like what’s the real deal between you two? There’s no harm with asking especially when you feel that the feeling is mutual.
Me and my ldr-bf, we started like that too. Just talking day in and day out. Until one day I asked him what’s our standing, like are we just friends or are we something more. And that’s when he confirmed to me that he does like me, until eventually we really fell so madly in love with each other. :)
I hope things be the same for you. Be happy. Cherish all the moments no matter how far apart you are.
I have been on hiatus from tumblr due to having a really busy schedule. Juggling 2 jobs, my family and my long distance relationship isn’t actually a no sweat situation.
But I’m here now, I need this. This will be my stress reliever starting today. I see that you guys sent a bunch of messages. My sincere apologies for not being able to respond. I will get to them right away.
I’m ready to be part of everyone’s lives again. <3
Hey um I’m in a LDR relationship we’ve been together for like 4 months now and well we’ve talking about finally meetings (I live in WA and he lives CA) once I graduate from high school. But since everything is coming from my pocket and the flight to were he lives is expensive and I have to stay in an hotel… All these costs are worrying me so much. I think it barely hit me how hard this is going to be and it seems like there are this signs pointing out that its not going to work. Since he got accepted to the same university as me but wont attend because it doesnt have nursing… /:
I just need to know that LDR are successful and worth it? Because I dont know anymore but I dont want to tell him how I feel because it’ll just wont go well /.\ Sorry just needed to let it all out and you’re in a LDR so that is why. Any advice? Because I really do care about him and I want to see how far we will go and I know he cares about me…
I know I’ve been losing time for you. But I promise to make up for it. Remember that I love you, no matter how far apart we are. We will stand strong through this distance between us.
Ouch. Your girlfriend sounds a lot like me sometimes. Hehe.
There are moments that I too doubt my own ldr. But then I think of losing my boyfriend and lose all the chance of being with him and that scares more than anything.
So when I have doubts, it’s either I turn to my bf for strength or find it within me.
Besides, LDR will only work if both of you are on the same boat. If the other one is on the edge, it’ll surely tip over.
Instead of arguing with her, show her your sincerity and compassion.
That’s what my boyfriend does. :)